Today, October 15th, is national Pregnancy and Infant Loss day. This kind of loss is usually represented by a white pumpkin, placed as decoration or prominently on display. It’s a way for others who have walked down this road to know they are not alone.

Back in July of this year, I found out I had gotten pregnant for the first time. The days we knew our child was with us were a whirlwind, but my husband and I cherished every moment. I miscarried four days after our discovery.